Step 5 // Confess
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Admit wrongs = honesty that builds trust
The Step: Admit to God, ourselves, and another person the exact nature of our wrongs.
Game theory: This is costly signaling. Honest disclosure is a “proof” move that makes trust and help rational again.
SCIENCE: why it helps
• Breaks secrecy: secrecy fuels relapse cycles.
• Lowers shame: being known reduces isolation and stress.
• Creates accountability: shared truth changes future choices.
Plain terms:
“I stop hiding. I tell the truth to God and a safe person —
and the game changes.”